A Week of Firsts

This was a week of firsts for our little family:

1. It was Audrey's first day of preschool

2. Audrey spent her first night in her big girl bed

3. We had our first Garage Sale

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1. I can't believe that my baby is turning three this year. Preschool was something that my husband and I had wanted Audrey to experience but was going to forgo due to the logistical challenges that come with working full time. However, once we got preggers and mat leave coincided with the school year we decided to give it a go.

As mentioned before, we chose a Parent Participation Preschool and really liked the fact that it seemed like a gentle approach to school. Ours is lovely; wonderful environment, nurturing teacher, small class size. Audrey can be extremely shy so it was really important for us to pick a school that would build her confidence and independence.

In preparation for the big day, we bought Audrey some new Dora slippers for her "inside shoes" and I made her a little gym bag to keep her things in. I remember when I was small my mom did the same so I thought I'd cary on the tradtion. She was so excited to bring it school it was totally worth dragging out the old Singer. But you can be the judge:

2. Audrey's first night in her big girl bed was bitter sweet as well. Up until now she had been sleeping in her crib -- she's never tried to climb out, she treats it like her little haven and we have had a lot of success with her sleep in the crib. So, why rock the boat??


Well, we should have rocked it sooner b/c Audrey absolutely LOVES her big girl bed. All the fears I had about her waking up multiple times, or wandering into our room in the middle of the night, or waking us up earlier in the AM b/c she would be so mobile were completely misguided. She played in her bed all afternoon and only woke up once in the night. In the AM, she kept herself entertained until I went in to say good morning -- and she was so proud of herself for having slept in her "big girl bed."


The most unexpected surprise was in the afternoon when Audrey got upset over something. She went into her room, crawled into bed with her soother & blanket, cried for a while and then played for a bit. She emerged about 15 mins later all better and we proceeded to have a great afternoon. The independene of being able to self soothe in a comfy place of her own was something I was depriving her by relying on me to put her into the crib. So, here's to baby growing up!


3. The Garage Sale -- this was our first garage sale, and I think that it will be our last. There was something really unsettling about watching all my stuff get taken away for pennies. Craigs list would have been a much better option for the big ticket items, and then donating all the small stuff to charity would have been way easier (which is what we did at the end). Which leads me to my first confession: I think I have borderline "hoarder mentality" disorder :) I don't throw very much out. Rather, I am a very creative "hider" of things. With baby #2 coming, it is definately time to purge but it was EXTREMELY difficult for me to see our things go. When we watch hoarders on TV, I am totally disgusted with their lifestyle yet when they talk to the therapist about their fears and why they do it, it doesn't seem that unreasonable to me. I actually identify with some of them! Anyways, I couldn't stand out there and watch my stuff go away for nothing so I went inside and left my husband and sister to run the show. It sucked.

Oh, one last first: Our first days of rain all month! It was welcome for me, who has a little inferno growing in my bellly and about to burst any minute. Our vegetables appreciated it too. And with all the $$ we just spent on drain tile, it was good to see it going to good use!